Free Looks Good on You: Healing the Soul Wounds of Toxic Love

How do you let go of the pain when love turns toxic, when rejection, betrayal, abuse or addiction have shattered your soul? Love isn’t supposed to hurt, but if you’re tired of the heartache, it’s time leave the past behind and find emotional freedom in relationships.

The truth is…letting go of the past is easier said than done. Those that mean well may have advised you to pray harder or give it to God, but these solutions are far too vague. You probably know you’re supposed to forgive, but where do you learn the how? How do you forgive him for that and let go of the pain that has left behind a trail of brokenness?

To add to the confusion, forgiveness alone isn’t always enough. If you don’t change the mindsets and behaviors that make you vulnerable to manipulation and control and toxic relationships in the first place, the past has a way of repeating itself. And then you stay stuck.

It’s time to destroy the sting of toxic love and find you again.

Through the book’s Freedom Blueprint you’ll discover 8 soul-strengthening secrets that will empower you to redefine who you are and be transformed into the strong and fearless woman you were created to be.

You’ll learn how to put a stop to manipulation and control, set effective boundaries so men can’t take advantage of you and invite God’s presence to help you heal.You’ll also learn:

•what bitterness does to your body•how to identify mental handicaps that make you vulnerable to toxic relationships•why you should trust your gut•how to spot yellow flags in relationships (they always come before red flags)•how to change the way you talk to yourself•how to communicate effective boundary statements so he takes you seriously•how to find God’s strength in the midst of conflict•how to renew your mind and rewrite your life script

Armed with truth and effective tools to apply God’s word to your life, you’ll be able to lay down your offenses and walk into your future with the intoxicating power of confidence and forgiveness. Whether he deserves it or not, you deserve to be free!

Available in print and eBook versions on Amazon. Audible coming soon.

Want more than just the book? Check out Let Go & Thrive, my online group coaching program developed as a companion program to Free Looks Good on You.

Love Junkies: 7 Steps for Breaking the Toxic Relationship Cycle

What if there was a way to diagnose your soul-health and create a plan for improvement so you could enjoy more satisfying romantic relationships? Complete with an online Soul-Health Profile that will help you assess your own soul-health and identify areas of weaknesses, Love Junkies, Seven Steps to Breaking the Toxic Love Cycle is just that—an action plan and detailed guide to help you eliminate toxic behaviors that jeopardize your soul health and keep you stuck in unhealthy relationships. You’ll learn how to change your habits and heal your soul and most importantly, break the toxic love cycle!

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“With clarity and confidence, with boldness and brilliance, with sensitivity and sincerity, Christy offers a tidal wave of hope and healing.”  Shannon Ethridge, Best-selling Author of 20 books including the Every Woman’s Battle series with Stephen Arterburn

“Love Junkies is like getting an emotional makeover. It’s not just truths and theories, but practical applications that help women destroy false beliefs about relationships and find personal restoration.” Georgia Shaffer, PA Licensed Psychologist and author of Avoiding the 12 Relationship Mistake Women Make

“Raw, honest and life changing! If you are addicted to love–be it real or fantasy–Christy offers you hope and healing.” Victorya Michaels Rogers, Love Coach and author of Finding a Man Worth Keeping

“Will restore your heart and soul, drawing you closer to the joy and fulfillment Christ alone offers.” Cheri Fuller, Speaker and author of The One Year Praying the Promises of God, and A Busy Woman’s Guide to Prayer and many other books

“Christy shares transparently about her former addiction to using men for approval and affirmation, and provides seven healing steps to break free.” Julie Gorman, Founder of For Your Inspiration and His Love Extended and author of What I Wish My Mother Had  Told Me About Men

A hand up for women stuck in the toxic love rut.

Love Junkies is written for any woman who is committed to improving her “relationship IQ” and discovering healthier ways to relate to men. It is a message of hope for the weary, and encouragement for the burned out. Whether married, single, or single-again, every woman will be empowered to take tangible steps toward God’s desire for them and their relationships.

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