Are You Tired of Controlling and Manipulative Relationships?

Would you like to learn simple but effective ways to set healthy boundaries?

If so, you've probably read tons of books and blogs on boundaries. You may know why you need them, but learning how to enforce them can be a different story. That's why I've created LOVE U. my 6-week course on all things boundaries

Love U Again has helped many other women just like you. 

If you're ready to reclaim Your God-Given confidence and strength I'd love to show you what I've learned! 

Love U Again dives into the practical application of all things boundaries. In this six-week online course I'll teach you everything I learned the hard way. You'll learn how to get STRONG! You'll learn how to:

Here's what STRONG looks like broken down. You'll learn:

  • How to Spot Manipulation. Manipulative people have certain identifiable characteristics that are easy to spot if you know what to look for. 
  • How to Trust Your Gut. Your gut reactions are often the voice of the Holy Spirit and you can and should pay attention to your instincts. 
  • How to Resolve Conflict. There are secrets that can give you an advantage in resolving conflict, like timing and entreating the other party. Others eventually gain more respect for you when you don't cower to confrontation. 
  • How to Overcome Vulnerabilities. When you learn how to recognize your defense mechanisms and handling your triggers you can learn how to be proactive instead of reactive.
  • How to Negotiate Boundaries. Taking ownership of your feelings is important. When others trespassed against you, you'll learn how to practice assertiveness by communicating your desires and expressing an appropriate consequence when your wishes are not honored. 
  • How to Guard Your Heart. Most of all you can learn how to stop letting others control, manipulate or abuse you. You can find your personal God-given confidence and strength.

If you've tried to fix him but NOTHING works, I have great news. You can change!  You can become the confident woman God intends for you to be! 

Setting healthy boundaries sounds easy, but boundaries are one of the most misunderstood relationship topics. Most of the women I coach acknowledge the need for them, but struggle with figuring them out, and then articulating and enforcing them.

Maybe you’ve thought boundaries weren't necessary or even a tad selfish. That you should focus on making others happy and ignore your own needs. 

With your spouse or boyfriend, maybe you thought it was his job to protect your heart, not yours. That if he loved you, there was no need to set boundaries.

If you've felt this way, what did you do when you were mistreated? Taken advantage of? Lied to? Cheated on? Often the only way to squash the pain and injustice is to ignore it all together. But at some point, the volcano explodes. Anger stuffed inside has to come out somehow.

The LOVE U Again curriculum is valued at $139, 

but at Thrive you'll only pay $69! 

This offer expires this weekend.

You missed out!

My first marriage was full of manipulation, control and abuse. And it continued in part because I was naive and nice. I misunderstood the difference between being a peacemaker and a peacekeeper. But I found my way to freedom and I'd love to help you find yours.

I'd love to show you how you can regain your confidence and find your voice again. If you've followed me for any time at all, you know how passionate I am about equipping women to live soul-healthy lives. And I truly believe this one thing: it's not possible to be emotionally healthy and enjoy satisfying relationships without knowing how to communicate and  articulate healthy boundary statements.

Setting boundaries does not have to be aggressive, but it does need to be assertive. We give away our power when we refuse to confront. Plus, we often end up resentful when others trespass against us.

Do you struggle with any of these thoughts?

Somehow I'm an easy target for manipulators

I'm constantly angry when others mistreat me

I don't know how to stop being a people-pleaser!

I did too, but one day my mentor told me the hard truth: 
Christy, you'll never Conquer what you're unwilling to Confront.

Today, I can honestly say that I'm glad I was in a relationship with a controlling and manipulative man.

Here's why: My people-pleasing recovery journey taught me how to find my identity in Christ, not in the opinions of others. Over the course of time I learned some amazing new skills that brought freedom, confidence and strength and so can you! 

Here's what other clients have to say:

Thank you so much for being such an important part of my story.

I've come along way since I took your courses, which were so life giving to me. I was in such a sad and broken place.  All that I learned and put to practice helped me to stay the course on my journey out of a destructive marriage.  I've been separated since January.  I just let him know that God has released me.  I actually said those words.  I can hardly believe it, but I did it.  It's still scary, but I'm trusting God for what I need. 


Thriving through separation 

"My confidence has soared..."

"I grew up in a violent home where questioning or speaking out against the abuse and pain was regarded as rebellion and therefore punished. As a result, I learned to stuff my feelings and explain myself for everything so I didn't get interrogated. Boundaries were nonexistent. The cycle of abuse, along with the baggage of shame and unworthiness carried over into two marriages. But Love U Again has changed all of that and has had a multi-generational impact on my family. As I applied what I learned, my self-confidence dramatically improved and created a climate for healthier and more satisfying relationships in all areas of my life, including my relationship with my mother. Another bonus is seeing my children apply the skills I've learned and am now modeling to them!"


Young Living Essential Oils Consultant and Detox Specialist

"I will never be the same again."

"The course was the perfect fit for me. I believe it was God that guided me to find Christy on YouVersion. My life has changed forever. I learned a lot and will never be the same again."


Pastor's Wife

"Boundaries are my ticket to emotional freedom and healthy relationships..."

"In past relationships I blamed myself for everything and stayed away from confrontation at any cost. I made excuses for the men in my life and minimized their behavior. But in Love U Again, I learned how to trust my gut instincts, guard my heart, and evaluate character. I now have the tools I need to have a life filled with peace and healthy relationships."


Home Mom and Teacher

"I've learned when to say yes and when to say no."

"Before I took this class I was at such a low point that I honestly could not see tomorrow. I'd been trying to separate from a very difficult relationship that I found myself in and wasn't sure how I was going to get out of it. From the beginning to the end of the classes, I realized that the Lord kept me in this fire so I could find myself and what I wanted to be. I learned when to say yes and when to say no. I've also learned how to identify some of the emotions I've buried for years. As horrible as the struggle had been, I had to go through it so God could build me back into the person He wanted me to be."


Nurse, Realtor and Mom

"Priceless!! Thank you for helping me to recognize, navigate and learn boundaries!"

"I learned so much about boundaries with myself and others. This course taught me that I can’t change what I won’t confront. Boy that was me before!! I’m so grateful to have had a safe place to confront my controlling behavior, and learn to undo problems and distorted thinking that have held me down most of my life! And the bonding and sharing with Christy and the other girls was priceless!!"


Retired & celebrating a new life with Christ

"I’m seeing almost everyday how effective this class has been in multiple relationships!"

LOVE U Again gave me the Godly wisdom and practical tools I needed to really help me get all of me back to God. I was able to let God guard my heart, to sort/separate some deep issues and get that breakthrough to finally move forward!

The size of group was very helpful to get to know one another and build relationships and support. Zoom allowed for group discussion but also opportunity to self reflect individually as well.  No one is alone! Christy provides a Bible based roadmap with candid transparency. Highly recommend as it will be life changing!


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Take advantage of this fabulous opportunity to enroll at A HUGE DISCOUNT!

Other coaches tell me I'm crazy for doing this, but because I don't want you to miss out on the chance to improve your spiritual and emotional health, I'm determined to keep the cost low! 

The LOVE U Again curriculum is valued at $139, 

but at Thrive you'll only pay $69! 

This offer expires at the end of the conference.

Thrive conference special


 Includes curriculum and workbook with video content for individual study so you can study and grow at your own pace.



  • 6 weeks of curriculum
  • weekly video content
  • Private Facebook group access

How Does the Curriculum Only Format Work?

Your course dashboard:

Once you enroll, you'll be given access to the course dashboard—this is where you'll view your lessons and videos and download the printable worksheets to help you reflect on the course principles and implement them into your life and relationships.

The dynamic curriculum focuses on the real issues you face. You’ll be challenged with compassion, grace and God’s truth to overcome the obstacles that compromise your peace.

In addition to the online learning materials, you'll have access to the private Facebook community, LOVE U Again, where you can ask questions and connect with myself and other women in the group.

Who is LOVE U AGAIN for? 

Single, married, divorced, or widowed women who want to learn how to articulate and establish better boundaries in romantic as well as personal and professional relationships. 

My commitment to you

If you've subscribed to one of my YouVersion plans or watched any of the Love Junkies teaching series, you know I'm passionate about what I do. Through the truth in God's word, I'm committed to helping you overcome the false beliefs and obstacles that have kept you stuck. 

Don't delay!

Make a decision to love u again!

The most spiritual word I ever learned was how to say "no" and NOT feel guilty."

Copyright 2023, Christine Johnson LLC